I haven’t poured my heart out about Ireland in a while. Over the course of a couple trips, my husband and I accumulated a nice collection of cardboard coasters from various pubs we shared a Guinness or two in. I made it a habit to write on each, what pub we were at, the city and the date, as well as nuances around us that we could remember and giggle at later. Well, I would giggle and he could belly laugh. Anyway, we found a full size Ireland poster and I’ve started to plot a small selection of the coasters according to region. I create many things, but this is one that really makes us reminisce and long for just another pint. It’ll be a highlight of our bar…whenever we create that.
Me and you
And you and me
No matter how they toss the dice, it has to be
The only one for me is you, and you for me
So happy together
As I scrolled through the trusty photo files, I found literally hundreds of self-shot pictures of my husband and I together. Luckily for you, I’ve only included four.
In some you can see the frustration of trying to get a camera to work from arm’s length or that we forgot to remove the zoom before taking a self-portrait. Others I can tell my husband is getting really annoyed that I’m making him stop and take more of these. Luckily in most of the shots we look really happy. I love them all because if we had the same smile all the time, all we’d be looking at is the background.
It’s only appropriate as we approach St. Paddy’s Day, that I indulge myself in more Ireland talk. On our first trip to Ireland, we tried not to plan and follow the stone walls to wherever they might lead us. We did a few things that Rick Steves suggested too, however. Though we spent most of our trip travelling around the Irish countryside and avoiding crowded tourist destinations, we did spend a couple nights in Dublin and took in the Musical Pub Crawl.
I fell in love with Irish music on this trip.
The music ranged from traditional to humorous and of course included beautiful and mournful ballads. The musicians that lead the crawl vary from night to night, based on traveling musician schedules and we were lucky enough to have Anthony Bools. His voice had so much character and fit the tone for each type of song chosen.
They had a professionally recorded CD compilation of various musicians that lead the tour and it has been a mainstay on my Ipod for a few years now. I couldn’t have been more pleased to have heard this particular song live, with fiddle accompaniment and later have a version to play at home, while I dreamed of Guinness and seisúns. I do suggest the tour if you are interested in learning about Irish music. The real feel of a seisún can be found in a good local pub, where the musicians play amongst themselves instead of to a crowd but this is an opportunity for a musician to take a moment between songs and discuss the fundamentals of the music and the instruments that are so specific to this type of music.
I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. Slainte!
Mae might be my alter ego. Or maybe she’s just a lot less shy and a lot more outgoing than life allows me to be, the true me.
Why Mae? I grew up in South Jersey, raised by my Philadelphian parents. I moved to Southern California after I graduated high school and a couple of years later I met the man who would be my husband. Until I met him, I never really knew I had an accent, besides the fact that waitresses could never get my water order right. “Root beer? What did you say?” “I said water.” No, apparently I was saying “wudder”. My in-laws still giggle at this.
Mae is one of my vocal imperfections. That is apparently what I say instead of saying “me”. As I got to know my future husband and his friends, we’d talk and share stories until eventually I got asked who Mae was and why I was talking about her. Mae has stuck with me, and she’s got a devilish grin and a glimmer in her eye. She sneaks backstage at concerts, debates passionately over a Guinness and plays in the rain. She’s always with me and but comes out when I’m at my best, and I’m probably the luckiest girl in the world because she gets to visit pretty often, when responsibility doesn’t wear her down.
Mae loves history, ancestry, Ireland, Philadelphia sports, Superheroes, Red Hot Chili Peppers (even when Kiedis is trying to rock that porno ‘stach), dorky science, tea parties, whiskey, playing guitar, oil paintings, culture, debating, photography, Los Angeles after a rainstorm (no smog), U2 (for both music and humanitarianism) and hates that she hasn’t found a way to make a profitable career out of the passion she has for life…yet. Mae and I co-exist, never straying too far from loving life but being responsible. Oscar my pug begs to differ…he’d rather I take him on a walk then write you.
It is beautiful out tonight…Mae, you up for an adventure? Oscar, grab your leash!