The title is an obvious statement and one which people often don’t keep in mind when getting a tattoo. The worst is seeing “trendy” tattoos and waiting for an entire generation to have a less than appealing version of it as we age. As someone with two tattoos, both small but one in an obvious place, getting more is something that makes me both very cautious and very eager.
One of the biggest parts of being a creative writer is expressing who you are. It is very easy to perfect our niche and allow details to shine through our written works that tell who we are. People like labeling things, and even ourselves, though many try to dismiss that notion. Tattoos are a version of that, like putting a permanent sticker on your car, but knowing it’s the car you drive for life. Also don’t forget that you’re never getting out of that car. People will judge you on your “decorations” and often decide where to fit you in terms of opportunities that arise.
Tattoos can be expressive in a “wow” way that exudes a look of glowing awe or a “wow” response that hinders more in a “what were they thinking” way. Your body décor can be appealing and open doors that a plain person may not access or it’ll shut a door in your face. There are simply open and closed-minded people, and that’s just the way life is. I suppose it’s a matter of making sure your body art truly depicts who you are and allows room for the opportunities you seek.
I’m often torn between allowing myself to be expressive and artsy or classic and conservative. I appreciate the notions of each and I’m not quite sure what I am deep down. Isn’t it ok to be both when the situation feels right? Do I have to go all in, or does taking myself out of one stereotypical box make me unique? When I’m out with friends, I don’t wear a watch. When I’m at work I do, to avoid the distraction of people staring at the tattoo on my wrist. I’m not ashamed of it and I still don’t regret getting it, but I’m also aware of the snickers I’ve gotten from corporate higher-ups and I don’t need my potential success sidelined by a decision I made when I was 18.
I also worry about what time does to our bodies. I have an inkling (get it?) to get another piece done, but I do worry that if I choose the wrong location, that time won’t be so kind. Maybe the conservative side is hindering the artistic one and I should take more of a chance. Or maybe like many things in life, such as buying a house or finding your spouse, it’ll come to you and you’ll just know. Same should probably apply to finding something you want to adorn on your skin forever. If we can’t wait for that to happen, then at least be prepared for the regret later.
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